It Prevents a Person from Doing a Big Mistake!
If you are doing a big mistake, or you have performed certain illegal behavior that can possibly hurt others, then never blame your self esteem for this. Often people use to do the same when they are behaving in a wrong way. There is absolutely nothing to do with the self esteem in such cases. It cannot contribute or propel you to behave badly that use to hurt others. Instead of that you should look at the circumstances that have forced or propelled you to do so. In this way, you can eliminate this issue further and can make your life beautiful.
However, what in case, kid has the poor self esteem? In place of feeling safe over the other children, low self esteem kid feels awkward, nervous & like he does not fit in. Other children sense this & think he is very ‘shy’ and ‘different’. He does not bond with other kids & is alone that makes him MORE insecure & lowers the self-esteem still. Eventually as other kids progress, date, form cliques, socialize outside school… low self esteem child, which was not able to connect in beginning is to shut out of this. He is actually left behind developmentally & not corrected in right time will go onto scar child in adulthood. The self esteem is all that you have – and what are you worth? How you calculate this? Self worth is the combination of self esteem, confidence & self respect.
The self esteem is the internal sense of the worth. It actually reflects the inner confidence & self respect. The self esteem outwardly shines & is been demonstrated by actions that one takes. Internal self worth that consists of the self esteem, confidence and respect, may get external net worth. While comparing the individuals with weak self esteem to people with the strong one, and what are obvious differences? Does this play very important role? Obviously, it does. The self esteem is essence of the personality, as well as is been reflected in self worth & net worth.
There are also people who tend to use self esteem as an excuse when they are behaving in a wrong way. For example, a boy aging around 13 has performed some ugly behavior, and he has contributed this happening for his self esteem. Well, how a boy aging around 13 can be taught in this way about self esteem. This is the age when understanding the reality of self esteem can be a tough job. So, how the behavior shown by the boy can be addressed towards self esteem. This is not the right way to blame self esteem simply to escape from others for your wrong doings.