If a boy aging around 13 has performed a wrong behavior, and he has been kicked out from the school, then you cannot blame this to his self esteem. You should understand the emotional conflicts that are quite stable at his home, and you cannot exactly blame his self esteem to be the prime reason behind such act. Often people use to blame self esteem when someone is performing a wrong act that hurts others. So, the big question is that how you can define self esteem? What is the real mean of it? To know the answer you can now move for the online world.
People who try and conquer feeling of the inferiority may sometimes try for superiority, when they accomplish this, it is the sign show the self esteem. The high self esteem is difficult to evaluate. The student who gets A’s every time, will do it being best, is afraid to be seen as the inconsistent of not keeping up and might like to compete? Being surrounded by the friendly, and loving people is the tremendous factor in the self esteem. And it isn’t always likely to find loving neighbor, honest friend and even the good decent family however for little love you may get, you should be vigilant and ensure being accepted on who you are & accept people for who they are.
When you know there are the differences between the people, building their relationship is much more easier. Try to stay near people that you see as well as interact with daily just by talking, being attentive, showing respect, being supportive as well as being very honest. Whereas there are a lot of books, gurus and articles, which purport to give some advice on how you can develop your self-esteem, I have still to see anybody to explain big picture. Holistic view of not having the good self esteem will systematically transform otherwise intentioned person with the potential in the bitter failure, which has squandered the opportunities & life.