There are a few ideas behind self esteem which you cannot test or prove. These ideas can also manipulate your decision making procedures to a great extent. They also have a good control on your behavior and often propel you to behave as per them. These are the elements often associated with self esteem which can even influence the inner qualities of a person to a great extent. If you are having a low level of self esteem, then it can be detected with your wrong behavior that may hurt others. This can also let you feel that you have not done a good thing by hurting others.
Most of the counsellors can tell you that the self esteem is important feature in anyone’s life. With all unforeseen events of the life, the self esteem is like the big element which helps us to go through life. In truthfulness, it is impossible having the meaningful life with low degree of the self esteem. To value life, you have to award yourself with adulation, which comes with the high level of the self-esteem. Thus, to speak, it is how you can gauge yourself, test yourself in world based on the opinions and feeling.
Actually, depending on day, self-esteem can change between the high, low, healthy, or very low. Did you realize that person with the low self esteem is looking for the negativity in anything. Whether it is the event, conversation, or types of entertainment as their anticipation of the event tends being negative, in case, essential, they can readily invent one & determine on outcome of the event as to be negative. Life is filled with example, you might have in your mind pulling on friends arm to avert them from getting hit by speeding car when they might interpret it as sign of aggression. A person with the low self-esteem might see sudden move as the attack as in their mind it is what they should expect from you.